Enko_chan
02-13-2009, 09:28 AM
Once business picks up for the new betta show season, and I have a little extra money to spare, I am buying a big new cage for my little fid-to-be. I'm going to use the (reasonable-sized, but not fit for super spoiling) cage I have now for trips to visit family, but I've found a fabulous cage! Its still got the bar spacing set for lovie-sized birds, but it is enormous. Its as tall as I am and has 5 levels! Its stainless steel, like the other cage, and just looks wonderful. I will have to move the big cubby cubes that I've used as a cage stand, but it will fit just perfectly between my clothes bureau and my partner's! It will make me feel a lot less guilty if I end up leaving her with my partner who works all week long when I go on my trip in May, to have her at least in such a large cage with lots of entertainment during the day.
This brings me to my question. We are presently trying to work out the best way to go about bringing home our new fid. Note that she is about 9 months old, and tame, not a just-weaned baby. I planned a trip to visit my father after Loki passed, not intending to begin the search again until after I returned. However, things have worked out otherwise and there will be an Angel coming into my life sometime in the near future! We require some input with regards to how we should go about it. The question is, should we bring her home as soon as she's vaccinated for APV, or should we wait until after I get back from my trip? Travel won't be an issue in the future, as I very rarely travel except for trips to Western MA, which is usually under 2 hours drive and I'll bring my fid with me, and if I were to travel, in the future I would fly on an airline that allows live animals in the cabin, unfortunately, Southwest does not.
Here's the deal:
I work at home, and spend a lot of time with the fid out of cage, even if they're just playing while I'm watching/working/writing, or sitting on my shoulder, but we spend a lot of time together. My partner Chris also spends a lot of time with our fids, but he works during the week, 6-9 hours per day, 5 days a week and has less time to devote to the birds than I. We are careful that we both spend a lot of time with them, and he is a bird lover who is perfectly willing and able to take care of our fid while I am away. Our concern is that she will be used to me being within earshot most of the time. I spend a few hours a week out of the house for medical appointments and a class, but the majority of the time, I am home.
Chris is absolutely traumatized by the deaths of Enko chan and Loki, which does not help the situation much- I think he is in undue fear that something will happen to her while I am away. (He will be in touch with both of our mothers, who are experienced parronts, plus I have bookmarked this forum and put it on the Emergency instructions list as an Emergency Reference along with my login info.) He is very smart and good with birds, I have no doubt that he is greater than or equal to the task. We know that the deaths of both birds were outside of our control, and that we're taking all reasonable steps to prevent such a thing from happening again- but I know he is still fearful. That part can be resolved, I think, it just may take a little bit more time, which we have while she is being vaccinated.
I know many of you work outside the home, and have healthy, happy birds who are none the worse for having some solitary time. We could even have her hang out with Chris's mum, who is our neighbor and is an experienced parront, on the days when she is home to lessen the time spent alone. Chris will give her social and out-of-cage time on a daily basis.
Do you think it will be too stressful for her to have, say, 1-2 months of consistent time spent with only about 5 hours per week when there is no one in the house with her, and then have a 2 week period when she will be alone for 6-9 hours per day, 5 days per week? Let me know what y'all think. We want your :2cents: to factor into our decision.
Thank you, everyone, for your kind words and support after we lost Loki. I can't properly express without giving many huge hugs how grateful I am for all that! I required a little time off from the forum because I was too sad, and then a short while longer because I was too angry. I hadn't planned on even beginning to search for my new fid until after my trip, but as things have turned out- a lovely creamino hen will be joining the ranks. I hope she's ready, because she's about to receive all of the love we had saved up for both Enko chan and Loki, plus the unique love we have that belongs to nobirdie but her! :grouphug1
This brings me to my question. We are presently trying to work out the best way to go about bringing home our new fid. Note that she is about 9 months old, and tame, not a just-weaned baby. I planned a trip to visit my father after Loki passed, not intending to begin the search again until after I returned. However, things have worked out otherwise and there will be an Angel coming into my life sometime in the near future! We require some input with regards to how we should go about it. The question is, should we bring her home as soon as she's vaccinated for APV, or should we wait until after I get back from my trip? Travel won't be an issue in the future, as I very rarely travel except for trips to Western MA, which is usually under 2 hours drive and I'll bring my fid with me, and if I were to travel, in the future I would fly on an airline that allows live animals in the cabin, unfortunately, Southwest does not.
Here's the deal:
I work at home, and spend a lot of time with the fid out of cage, even if they're just playing while I'm watching/working/writing, or sitting on my shoulder, but we spend a lot of time together. My partner Chris also spends a lot of time with our fids, but he works during the week, 6-9 hours per day, 5 days a week and has less time to devote to the birds than I. We are careful that we both spend a lot of time with them, and he is a bird lover who is perfectly willing and able to take care of our fid while I am away. Our concern is that she will be used to me being within earshot most of the time. I spend a few hours a week out of the house for medical appointments and a class, but the majority of the time, I am home.
Chris is absolutely traumatized by the deaths of Enko chan and Loki, which does not help the situation much- I think he is in undue fear that something will happen to her while I am away. (He will be in touch with both of our mothers, who are experienced parronts, plus I have bookmarked this forum and put it on the Emergency instructions list as an Emergency Reference along with my login info.) He is very smart and good with birds, I have no doubt that he is greater than or equal to the task. We know that the deaths of both birds were outside of our control, and that we're taking all reasonable steps to prevent such a thing from happening again- but I know he is still fearful. That part can be resolved, I think, it just may take a little bit more time, which we have while she is being vaccinated.
I know many of you work outside the home, and have healthy, happy birds who are none the worse for having some solitary time. We could even have her hang out with Chris's mum, who is our neighbor and is an experienced parront, on the days when she is home to lessen the time spent alone. Chris will give her social and out-of-cage time on a daily basis.
Do you think it will be too stressful for her to have, say, 1-2 months of consistent time spent with only about 5 hours per week when there is no one in the house with her, and then have a 2 week period when she will be alone for 6-9 hours per day, 5 days per week? Let me know what y'all think. We want your :2cents: to factor into our decision.
Thank you, everyone, for your kind words and support after we lost Loki. I can't properly express without giving many huge hugs how grateful I am for all that! I required a little time off from the forum because I was too sad, and then a short while longer because I was too angry. I hadn't planned on even beginning to search for my new fid until after my trip, but as things have turned out- a lovely creamino hen will be joining the ranks. I hope she's ready, because she's about to receive all of the love we had saved up for both Enko chan and Loki, plus the unique love we have that belongs to nobirdie but her! :grouphug1